{"id":38502,"date":"2024-03-22T09:19:17","date_gmt":"2024-03-22T13:19:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.flywheelsites.com\/?p=38502"},"modified":"2024-03-22T09:19:17","modified_gmt":"2024-03-22T13:19:17","slug":"living-in-the-moment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/living-in-the-moment\/","title":{"rendered":"Living In The Moment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No, it\u2019s not a horse movie, and to be honest for a good portion of the movie I was wondering where they were going<br \/>\nwith the plot. However by the end of the movie I was able to pick out a couple messages that made<br \/>\nthe sometimes very confusing journey, worthwhile. The one message that shared a theme with<br \/>\nsomething I have been thinking about with horses lately is the title of this blog, living in the moment.<\/p>\n<p>In the movie, there were times when Walter Mitty had trouble staying present in the moment.<br \/>\nSomething would spark an idea, and then his imagination would send him on a wild adventure.<br \/>\nUltimately he realized that his zoning out lead to him missing out on the moments he was actually<br \/>\nin, and the people he was with.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How does this relate to horses?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Horses don\u2019t have a wild imagination, well except for when they spook at something, but even then<br \/>\nthey are still very much living in the moment. They also help us to stay present in the moments we<br \/>\nare with them in, because if we\u2019re not, anything could happen. The first group that comes to mind<br \/>\nwhen I think of riders who always need to be present in the moment are Eventers on the cross<br \/>\ncountry course, and Jumpers. Living in the moment in those sports makes a big difference, not just<br \/>\nin completing the course well, but also in the safety of both horse and rider.<\/p>\n<p>Living in the moment with our horses also means that we honestly asses our own abilities, and our<br \/>\nhorses abilities. In taking an honest look at both of our abilities we can determine if a goal is<br \/>\nachievable, and see what steps we need to take to reach the goal. It doesn\u2019t do us, or our horses,<br \/>\nany good if we get caught up in a daydream like Walter Mitty, and imagine doing something that is<br \/>\nbeyond either one of our abilities.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How can we get better at living in the moment?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Well, let me start by saying it\u2019s not easy.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it takes facing fears, taking risks, changing routines, and pushing ourselves out of our<br \/>\ncomfort zones. A lot of times we imagine a better life, better health, better rides, anything we<br \/>\nimagine really, because we are dissatisfied with where we are in any area of our present life. Being<br \/>\ndissatisfied with where we are isn\u2019t necessarily a bad thing. That dissatisfaction can be the force<br \/>\nthat drives us to learn, and grow in those areas if we are willing to put in the work.<\/p>\n<p>The thing that gets us stuck sometimes is that imagining something better is easier than actually<br \/>\nhaving to work for it. I\u2019ll be the first to admit that sometimes change is scary. Doing something<br \/>\nyou\u2019ve never done before puts you face to face with the unknown, and it\u2019s unpredictable. Much like<br \/>\nour horses, we like routine, even if that routine isn\u2019t working for us, or getting us any closer to our<br \/>\ngoals. I have to constantly remind myself of this &#8211; don\u2019t let fear, or routine, stop you from taking<br \/>\nrisks, and making positive changes in your life. It\u2019s worth the risks.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How did it end?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not going to spoil the ending of the movie for you! Though confusing at times, I have to admit<br \/>\nthe journey to the end of the movie was worth it. Just like every moment with our horses is also<br \/>\nworth it. I\u2019ve heard Clinton Anderson explain how when he was learning how to train horses as a<br \/>\nteen there would be days when he would go to the barn, and have a great training session saying<br \/>\nthat when he left the barn he felt like God\u2019s gift to horses. And then there were the other days,<br \/>\nwhere it seemed like the horses had forgotten everything they had done perfectly the day before.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s how it is working with horses. They live in the moment, and in order to have as many good<br \/>\ndays as possible we need to join them in that exact same moment. Every moment may not always<br \/>\nbe pleasant, or enjoyable, but when we come out the other side having learned something, that<br \/>\ngrowth is always worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Leave us a comment, and let us know about the moments you, and your horse, have had together<br \/>\nlately.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No, it\u2019s not a horse movie, and to be honest for a good portion of the movie I was wondering where they were going with the plot. However by the end of the movie I was able to pick out a couple messages that made the sometimes very confusing journey, worthwhile. 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