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Riders can spend decades looking for their \u201cheart horse<\/a>\u201d. Some would say there\u2019s only one out there for you, while others believe you can have many heart horses. This horse is the one that will or has changed your life. Once you\u2019ve found them, you\u2019ve struck gold!<\/span><\/p>\n

Building a relationship with any horse can take time. Some of these heart horses will require even more work. Because let\u2019s face it, the best learning is often achieved through our struggles. Many heart horses start off as difficult, but once their person begins to truly listen the relationship they form is incredible. Remember, good things take time and effort.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Building A Relationship\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n

First, you have to truly want a good relationship with your horse. It has to be built on <\/span>mutual respect and understanding<\/b>. It\u2019s not as simple as, \u2018I feed you, now you owe me\u2019. You should be focused on enjoying your time together. Your visits should be a combination of riding mixed with things your horse likes too, such as grooming sessions, hand grazing, and enrichment activities. Too often, equestrians focus all of their barn time on riding and neglect those other aspects. This is especially easy when you board and the horse\u2019s care is done for you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Communication<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Now that you\u2019ve made the commitment to work with your horse, you\u2019ll need to <\/span>learn how they communicate<\/b>. Your horse may not use words, but they \u201csay\u201d quite a bit through their body language. You can find a book that outlines some basics. It\u2019s even more helpful to spend time observing your horse in the herd. How does the alpha horse behave? Observe their ears, head position, body, legs, tail, etc.\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Leadership<\/strong><\/h3>\n

It can be helpful to understand that your horse <\/span>craves a leader<\/b>. This will allow them to relax and feel at ease in your presence. They\u2019ll be focused on you and your requests. This is still a partnership though, and it\u2019s essential you don\u2019t abuse your power. You should always be fair and patient with your horse. Furthermore, you shouldn\u2019t allow your horse to cross the boundaries that you set. For example, it\u2019s not recommended to allow your horse to scratch their head on you. They\u2019ve entered your personal space and, in a way, have disrespected you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Confidence<\/strong><\/h3>\n

As a rider and horse handler, you should <\/span>strive to be your best version<\/b>. Things like bringing your work stress to the barn or yelling at your horse can be really damaging. You have to remember that horses can feel your energy and tension. If you\u2019re stressed or anxious, it can make them feel that way. It\u2019s difficult to enjoy your time together when everyone is on edge. It can be helpful to write down some positive affirmations and have them posted in the barn or your car.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Go to top<\/a><\/div>\n

Give yourself plenty of time to connect with your horse. It\u2019ll be hard to know if they\u2019re truly your heart horse until you give your relationship with them a chance. Horses are sensitive beings with many emotions. If you open your heart to them, they\u2019ll do the same in time.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Connecting<\/p>\n

Love this blog post?<\/strong>\u00a0We think you will enjoy\u00a0The Definition of a Heart Horse<\/a> by Emily Fought.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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