{"id":34061,"date":"2019-05-09T12:46:32","date_gmt":"2019-05-09T16:46:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.flywheelsites.com\/?p=34061"},"modified":"2023-03-27T16:23:11","modified_gmt":"2023-03-27T20:23:11","slug":"the-first","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/the-first\/","title":{"rendered":"The First"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. \u00a0I still remember the dream that I had at five, even though I am now sixty three. \u00a0A pony of my own in a pony sized barn. And I never was so happy than in that dream. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I begged my parents for a horse and he arrived when I was five. \u00a0My mother, who knew nothing about horses found a stocky, older, pinto rental horse. \u00a0He was perfect in all the ways that I had imagined and he taught me more than any of the 30 or more horses I have owned. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This horse was my best friend. \u00a0And he was a seasoned rental horse from the park. \u00a0Every person that ever wanted to be a cowboy, I\u2019m sure, rode him. \u00a0We rode bareback before I even knew how to ride and that is when he taught me about a balanced seat. \u00a0With his bumpy trot and fast canter it was difficult to stay on, but over time we could zig and zag and ride like the wind with great ease. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Any chance he could get, the grass was always a sure thing as I would be thrown forward and pull with all my might to get his head back up from a lush green treat. \u00a0I vividly remember having a face full of mane many times. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being a seasoned rental horse, he knew when he saw a barn that it was time to head to it. \u00a0Every barn we rode near, we had a barn-storming experience. It taught me to tuck my knees in and duck without asking for a faster trot while staying on his back the entire time. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-32595\" src=\"https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/debbie.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"362\" height=\"236\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/debbie.png 362w, https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/debbie-300x196.png 300w, https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/debbie-160x104.png 160w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 362px) 100vw, 362px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Within a few months, I was getting used to all of his rental tricks and wisdom. \u00a0And we became the best of friends. I didn\u2019t know that we were anything other than that. \u00a0So I taught him to stretch until he was almost on his toes. I also took some tree stumps and taught him to put his front feet on them like a circus horse. \u00a0And then circle his back end around while his feet stayed on the stumps. Pretty good show for the kids in my neighborhood. I could swing up on his side onto his back and jump from behind onto his back&#8230;just like the movies. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The afternoons were the best, I would lay on his back while he ate hay and grain. \u00a0There was something wonderful about the sound of him eating and the big blue sky with white clouds and the warm sun. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-32575\" src=\"https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/16.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/16.jpg 640w, https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/16-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/16-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/16-560x420.jpg 560w, https:\/\/yourhorsefarm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/16-160x120.jpg 160w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We rode through the woods and along many roads. \u00a0There was not a place that I did not ride him. 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